Monday, March 14, 2016

Something smells good, or What's that smell?



What’s that smell?  031316
(Light incense at Children’s time)
Story:  what’s that smell OR  Something smells good
what smells evoke what memories?   Coffee, bread baking, soup in the pot, Friday BTw, Sunday dinner, oils after a massage—the aroma can permeate the place, but more than that, the memories evoked speak of deep, good experiences usually…as much about the experience as the aroma, 
Bread baking smell really means my grandfather’s love, for example
In some churches, incense  
Our gospel story today has this phrase “The fragrance filled the house”
The fragrance of what, filled the house?
Unlike other gospel writers, John has this story of Jesus getting a foot washing and much more, a massage, a sign of deep respect, care and hospitality, by his friend Mary……other stories have different settings and characters.  So obviously, what fills the house is the smell of the ointment from Jesus’ footrub.
But really, as with our aroma memories, it’s more about the experience, and Jesus moves the critics from the obvious to the Real:
of love given,                                                                                                                                                               suffering acknowledged                                                                                                                                                             but life affirmed.
It’s Mary’s motivation in the act that causes something to fill the available space.  She went beyond the simple expectation of hospitality’s foot washing in that dusty climate, and anointed him.   Yes, it’s about his upcoming death, he says, but as a woman and friend I also know its about his presence, then and there—her delight in him, her love for him,  offers not only comfort  but also points to beauty and the very human need for tender loving touch.  And the house could become either a place of critical complainers or of extravagant generosity.   Awkwardly embarrassing, financially extravagant, smelly it may be.  But Jesus affirms it, and that’s what permeates the whole house
This incense too fills our church space with more than an aroma:  it smells of babies being baptized, love being celebrated, tender touch at funerals.   The aroma of praise wafts through our songs and anthems, our tears and laughter, and the fragrance fills the house…
 love given,                                                                                                             suffering acknowledged                                                                                                                                                             but life affirmed
And what about what we do beyond this particular space?  What do we do that points to the beauty of divine love, God’s extravagance, that offers tender loving touch?
Nursery huggers and ss teachers, Sunday dinner preparers for the community, hands held in small groups as we pray together, are they given extravagantly and lovingly?   So the fragrance fills the house?
love given,                                                                                                                                         suffering acknowledged                                                                                                                                                             but life affirmed
And beyond these walls?   Brows wiped at Advent House, hands held in prayer at Francis Center, food for the body and soul at Sanctuary house, ashes marked on foreheads in our parking lot……and the fragrance of divine love and extravagance fills the available space.
 love given,                                                                                                                                                                suffering suffering acknowledged                                                                                                     but life affirmed
And what about in our families and personal relationships and work places?  Do our actions speak
love given,                                                                                                                    suffering acknowledged                                                                                                                                                             but life affirmed.
Does the fragrance of our friendship with Jesus fill the spaces we occupy?
Mary’s love for Jesus gave her an open heart, and caused her to spend extravagantly, act outrageously, endure embarrassment calmly….and the fragrance of her behavior filled the house.  Does yours? does mine?  Does ours? 
Long after the incense is gone, will the memory evoked be enough to keep our hearts and homes, our church and community,  a fragrant house of generosity, or will we forget and go back to being  dank homes of critical complainers?
May the house of each of our hearts, and this house of God, be filled with the fragrance of
love given,                                                                                                                                                               suffering acknowledged                                                                                                                                                             but life affirmed.
Amen.

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